Nojoud Muhammed Nasser, 8, went to court by herself in Yemen.
Yemeni Court Grants 8-Year-Old Girl Divorce: Nojoud Muhammed Nasser, 8, was told by her father two months ago that it was time for her to marry Faez Ali Thamer, 30. She recounts what happened to reporter Hamed Thabet of the Yemen Times,
My father beat me and told me that I must marry this man, and if I did not, I would be raped and no law and no sheikh in this country would help me. I refused but I couldn’t stop the marriage. I asked and begged my mother, father, and aunt to help me to get divorced. They answered, “We can do nothing. If you want you can go to court by yourself.” So this is what I have done.
Nasser complained about her husband’s behavior.
He used to do bad things to me, and I had no idea as to what a marriage is. I would run from one room to another in order to escape, but in the end he would catch me and beat me and then continued to do what he wanted. I cried so much but no one listened to me. One day I ran away from him and came to the court and talked to them. … Whenever I wanted to play in the yard he beat me and asked me to go to the bedroom with him. This lasted for two months. He was too tough with me, and whenever I asked him for mercy, he beat me and slapped me and then used me. I just want to have a respectful life and divorce him.
Indeed, she went by herself to Sana’a West Court on April 2 to find a judge who would permit her to prosecute her father, Muhammed Nasser, and to win a divorce from Thamer on grounds of sexual and domestic abuse. Yemeni law does not permit Nojoud to prosecute, being underage, but Judge Muhammed al-Qathi heard her complaint and subsequently ordered the arrests of both her father and husband.
No charges have brought against either her father, who was later released due to health problems, or the husband, who remains in jail pending further investigation.
Thamer is unrepentant but willing to be flexible: “Yes, I was intimate with her, but I have done nothing wrong, as she is my wife and I have the right and no one can stop me. But if the judge or other people insist that I divorce her, I will do it, it’s ok.”
Shatha Ali Nasser, a lawyer in the Supreme Court notes that Yemeni civil law states that “no girl or boy can get married before the age of 15” but that a 1998 amendment permits parents to arrange a marriage contract between their children below the age of 15. The husband may not have sexual relations with a young wife until she is physically mature, but the situation invites abuses. Nasser notes that Nojoud’s predicament is not unique but she is the first young girl to venture into court by herself.
Meanwhile, Noujoud’s uncle has become her guardian and she will be placed in Dar Al-Rahama, an NGO for children. (April 9, 2008)
This girl is younger than my daughter and I salute her courage, but stories like this just make me fume, any religion that condones this sort of abuse has absolutely NO place in a civilised world. I am just too sickened to say more.
Angry and disgusted Comrades